Tag: //sexual mention

❤: Do they have any insecurities about sex?

Carlos likes to talk and make quips about things – whether it’s to be punny, overly-scientific, or both. But people have expressed their dislike about his gift of gab, so he has spent nearly two decades trying to reign it in.

Also, he hasn’t had much of any in about fifteen years. So there’s that.

ϟ: How much does your muse value sexual intimacy?

He thinks that when it happens, it’s great! But he doesn’t actively seek it out, not even while he’s dating someone. He’s had people be critical of his ‘antics’ during sex, and with the ten-fifteen year dry spell he seriously doubts his ability to be any good at it.

But ultimately, Carlos is more concerned with communication and making sure the other person knows he’s devoted to them. Despite how often he gets distracted by his work.

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♪: What factors and events shaped how your muse views sex and
sexual matters? Were they influenced by other people or did their own
experiences shape their view of it?

Some of Carlos’ main experiences happened in Senior year of high school and the early years of college. In High School he and a friend Ralphie Tennelli decided to try to see how it was to sleep with guys. Ralphie didn’t like it. But Carlos did. They never talk about it.

Between high school and college Carlos and Wanda Li dated for a bit. But while they were friends growing up, Wanda was a little too critical for Carlos so he broke it off. She wasn’t a fan of his commentary for just about everything, not just in the bedroom.

Then when college started he tried dating Dorothy Anne Rourke since they’d had a mutual crush since childhood. But Dorothy was very concerned with her books and her research, and Carlos had his own school work to focus on. Since both of them were going for high-intellect careers and their schooling was important they mutually agreed that it wasn’t working and broke up. Carlos wished circumstances were better for them, or that they might have waited before going to school to try dating each other first, but it didn’t happen. He regrets that they couldn’t try harder and he misses her, but he’s not gonna say so – he has no idea if D.A. feels the same because she just dove into her school work and he hardly ever got a chance to hang out with her again.

Since college, Carlos has tried to date a couple times but his work got in the way so he gave up trying until he felt like his work didn’t make him so busy. That hasn’t really happened.

✯: Do they talk to their partner during sex? Do they talk dirty? Do they whisper sweet nothings?

Carlos would love to talk during sex. Though his dirty talk/sweet nothings would constitute of overly-analytical statements with lots of big words/words not used in conventional conversation. Things like “Looking at you and touching you drives my endorphins and hormones through the roof” or something.

However, some partners have not found it cute or attractive so he tries not to talk like that.